Every single girl wants to believe that happiness in the face of a handsome prince is waiting for her around the corner. But if the right person stubbornly refuses to appear in your life, we suggest speeding up the process. Try to change tactics, come out of your hiding place and find a decent man on your own. Take note of 10 simple rules that will help you make an acquaintance.
1. Get out of the house
Of course, it’s better if you start visiting places of male hobbies more often (for example, a gym), but even an ordinary walk around the city can turn into a good acquaintance. Put on your favorite dress, make a beautiful make-up and arm yourself with your main trump cards – a sincere smile and a confident look.
2. Avoid big companies
If you want to attract the attention of a man, do not appear in public places in the company of girlfriends. A potential gentleman simply does not dare to approach you while you are surrounded by a whole crowd of other girls. When walking for the purpose of dating, take a maximum of one girlfriend with you.
3. Be open
Is always. And don’t forget to look around. Communicate with waiters and waitresses, administrators, security guards… You need to get used to easy contact. Openness attracts.
4. Chest forward, ass back
Every move you make must feel confident. Think about which woman attracts more attention – the one who walks down the street with her head held high or the one who sits quietly at the table with her shoulders down and her eyes downcast? Modesty has its advantages, but when meeting you, it makes it difficult to see your charm and charisma.
5. No bad habits
One cigarette can instantly nullify a positive impression of you. The same goes for alcoholic drinks. It is unlikely that a lady who alone knocks over glass after glass will attract men who are aimed at a long and happy family life.
6. Moderate initiative
Yes, the representatives of the stronger sex may also be hesitant to take the first step. But this does not mean that you need to immediately offer your phone number first. Show your interest in non-verbal behavior. A slightly longer look, a smile – that will be enough.
7. Rate right away
You can determine some of the human qualities of a man on the spot. Let’s say you tripped, dropped something. If he didn’t even try to help, it’s not worth continuing to get to know each other. It is also worth paying attention to the attitude of a potential gentleman to others. Just listen to how he communicates with the attendants in a cafe or cinema. Education is immediately visible.
8. Ask questions
You don’t have to be intrusive. But a healthy curiosity never hurts. Any person is pleased when people show interest in his life and hobbies. May your meeting be successful for him, and useful and informative for you.
9. Don’t Play Hard
If you want to keep communicating with the man in front of you, demonstrate it. Showy coldness and monosyllabic answers will alienate the interlocutor. Are you interested in a new acquaintance? Then don’t waste your time.
10. There will be no wedding
At least for the next two months. If you just met, you do not need to soar in the clouds and make far-reaching plans. Enjoy the moment! The rest will come.
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