Most men admit that when a truly beloved woman touches them, they feel a kind of “current” running through the body. Take advantage of it! Having mastered the technique of erotic massage, you will become truly unforgettable and irreplaceable for him – after all, it is impossible to refuse someone who brings us unearthly pleasure.
Most men admit that when a truly beloved woman touches them, they feel a kind of “current” running through the body. Take advantage of it! Having mastered the technique of erotic massage, you will become truly unforgettable and irreplaceable for him – after all, it is impossible to refuse someone who brings us unearthly pleasure.
Erotic massage is truly a real pleasure for a man. Erotic massage is very versatile. It can be either a planned action or spontaneous. Thanks to erotic massage, you can bring your partner to orgasm, or you can prepare for the pleasure of sex.
It is not difficult to give your loved one a magical evening. You will only need a simple inventory that you can find in the nearest supermarket, and – most importantly – your sincere desire to surprise and pamper your beloved.
You can use the list of items that may be useful to you:
- A comfortable bed or sofa on which your man can lie down, and it will be convenient for you to sit next to him;
- a sheet or a large towel with which you can cover your partner;
- massage or baby oil for the skin;
- candles;
- incense sticks or aroma lamp with a jar of jasmine, neroli, rose, sandalwood, ylang-ylang or lavender essential oils;
- blindfold;
- feather, velvet glove, etc.
Create an atmosphere
Prepare the room in which you will do the massage. You can take your man to the store for a bottle of champagne in order to bring comfort to your love nest – everything will take five to ten minutes.
Close the curtains tightly and put out the overhead light. The diffused and soft glow of candle lights will create an absolutely fabulous mood and will not hurt your eyes, it will help you relax. Turn on soft music for relaxation (you can download it on the Internet for “music for meditation” or “music for massage”).
Make sure the room is warm. Both you and him should be comfortable without clothes.
Light the incense sticks for a short while, so that a pleasant smell soars in the air, but your man has something to breathe. If you have chosen an aroma lamp, then you have a great chance to take advantage of the exciting properties of some essential oils. Since ancient times, ylang-ylang, sandalwood and neroli oils have been considered aphrodisiacs. Lavender and rose will bring peace and relaxation. True, if your plans do not include sound healthy sleep at all, be careful with lavender oil.
Prepare your body for an erotic massage
When the “massaged” undresses and takes his place on the “bed of love”, cover him with a pre-prepared sheet or towel. Start the massage from the open areas of his body and move lower, gradually opening it up. So you kill two birds with one stone: keep his body warm and create a sensual mood.
All places that you will touch, with the exception of the head, can and should be covered with massage oil. With it, your hands will glide over the body of your man easily and smoothly, and this will allow you to create a certain rhythm that will relax and excite your loved one.
Gently run your palms over the part of the body that you are massaging, lightly and gently rub the skin. As in a classic massage, this necessary action will prepare the area you will be touching for your next steps.
Your task is to relax
He gets tired as much as you every day. Give him half an hour or an hour of relaxation, when he doesn’t have to think about the fact that now it’s his turn to “stretch up” and please you already. Don’t stutter about wanting something for this massage and he’ll be grateful.
Forget about time, about how much you need to do and how many problems are waiting to be solved. All the negativity in your head will lead to stiffness of movements, and your loved one will immediately feel it – and will not be able to relax on his own, and all your actions will turn into sheer torture for him.
Don’t talk – it’s distracting. Let the movements of your hands replace the words. You can also blindfold your counterpart – this will sharpen the sensitivity of tactile receptors, and each of your caresses will respond in his body with a sweet shiver.
The secret of a sensual and enveloping massage is not to pause. This will create a special mood for your man and give him an unforgettable experience.
Fantasize!
Act softly and gently, affectionately, avoid rough, abrupt movements. Watch your partner’s reaction to choose the right rhythm of movements and the most sensitive parts of his body.
If he is tense, you can start the massage session on the back of his head or his chest. As you slowly rub his chest muscles, you will notice how his breathing calms down and becomes deeper. If it’s not difficult for you, you can use the NLP technique and build the so-called “rapport”: breathe with him to the beat, adjust the rhythms of your breathing. This will allow you to become even closer to each other and feel boundless trust.
In erotic massage, your fantasy plays a major role. There is nothing exciting about predictability, especially if you have been together for a long time. You can also caress the front of his body, use various objects such as a feather, a velvet glove and even a massage brush! In this case, all means are good if they make him choke with excitement.
Tenderness is the key to success
Such a massage is not always and not only a prelude to a stormy night. First of all, it helps you to express your love, to establish an even closer and warmer contact between you.
But in any case, the softer and lighter the touch, the more refined the pleasure that your loved one will receive. Particularly sharply on your actions will respond those places where the thinnest skin – on the inside of the arms, thighs, under the knees and, of course, in the intimate area.
Now you know everything about the technique of erotic massage! 🙂