Women’s intuition rarely fails: if it seems that he is using you, you should seriously think about whether you need a relationship with a person who makes you doubt yourself.
When you find out that you are being used, nothing good happens. You feel nasty, like someone spat all over your face. In order not to find yourself in such a situation, read our points that will help you identify a dishonest man and leave him in time.
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Meet when it suits him
Have you noticed that when you offer a meeting time, he always tries to change it so that it is more convenient for him? This is the first sign that the guy is using you. All your plans, in fact, have turned into his plans, and he is available to you only when in him there is time.
He doesn’t say “thank you”
When you do something for him, he takes it as if you do your duty. If this means you have to thank the smallest act of kindness or the most ordinary act of gratitude, it’s time to run, girlfriend.
You have to ask him for everything
He never does anything by himself. Only by order, after the hundredth request. He himself will never help you, even if you carry a huge bag of potatoes with him, he will not rush to help. It’s definitely time to leave.
He flirts with others
He keeps you with him just like that, just in case and to remember at the moment when he needs it. And, of course, your presence in his life doesn’t stop him from flirting with others girls.
You have to and he doesn’t
He does not advertise your relationship, flirts with others and generally does not want to present you as his girlfriend to others, but here you should not flirt with other guys, and generally behave as if you are his faithful wife.
Kind only when he needs something
If he is romantic and kind only when he wants to ask you for something, you should run away immediately, because perhaps he is manipulating you and trying to use you for his own good.
Asks for help but doesn’t help
If he constantly asks you for support, help, advice, money, but when you have some problems, he immediately disappears, you should immediately run away from such a boyfriend. He is most likely using you.
He is the center of the universe
All your relationships revolve around him: you ask how in him how did it go his day, what in him desires and plans for the evening. But your plans, thoughts and deeds do not mean anything and do not play an important role. Sometimes it seems to you that he is an egoist, and this is true. Sounds like your boyfriend sees everyone around him as just things to satisfy his needs.
He doesn’t show your relationship
Does he hide you from friends and family, does not want to appear with you in crowded places, does not greet you at parties and keeps aloof? Well, it’s time to leave, because he keeps you in reserveand he may already be dating someone.
He always needs sex
Every time you meet, he insists that you should have sex? It seems that the guy only wants you for sex and nothing more.
You have to apologize for him
very bad sign – when you have to make excuses and apologize for the behavior of your boyfriend to friends, family and even strangers. He speaks to you without respect, doesn’t like your friends, and if you have to justify his misbehavior with stress or fatigue, you should consider whether your boyfriend is using you.
It makes you feel like nothing
If boyfriend makes you feel worthlessin every possible way reminds you that you are nobody and nothing without him, you can’t do anything and deserve nothing, it’s worth leaving him immediately, because he is trying to make you dependent on his opinion.
You always pay for everything
There is nothing wrong with paying once or twice for dinner, but not when you are constantly paying for your partner’s entertainment. And certainly not when he uses your card to the fullest and claims that you earn too little or OH GOD! spending money on things you don’t need.
He constantly puts pressure on you mentally
If you are all the time you feel guiltyif he constantly educates you, like a daddy, and scolds, justifying it by saying that he “takes care of you”, you should run away immediately! It seems that he is really trying to use you and builds his authority in your relationship in this way.
You give gifts. And only you
From him do not wait for even the simplest bouquet. He doesn’t care about your birthday, and only he deserves a New Year’s gift. And as soon as you say that he, too, could give you something, accusations of commercialism begin to pour in.
He hates your success
He is annoyed by your career success, your hobbies, good deals and authority among friends. If a guy uses you, then for him you are just the satisfaction of his needs. Refrigerator, bed, toilet, you – all this is for him in the same row.