Sometimes love makes us crazy. The desire to be in the first place in the life of the other half turns into a real mania. A person goes to extremes because of the fear of losing the object of his love. And men are no exception. We have collected five abnormal requirements of a partner!
Abnormal demands from a partner
No matter how perfect and long-lasting the relationship is, each partner must have their own boundaries. When a guy or a girl loses their “I” and simply becomes dependent on each other, later they have a fear of losing their loved one. And this gives rise to abnormal requirements for a partner. Pay attention to the list to avoid something like this in your personal life.
1. He demands constant attention
A guy wants to spend all his time with you. It doesn’t matter to him that you are tired after work, want to rest, be alone with yourself or meet friends. You should be around, because you don’t need anyone else. This is a typical manifestation of abnormal partner dependence and pure selfishness.
A person is too immersed in relationships and sees nothing else besides them. But outside the “dome of love” there is a whole life in which the other half is clearly trying to be limited. Such behavior is characteristic, of course, of both men and women. So look around!
2. He forbids you
Every person is a free creation. Therefore, a man does not have the right to forbid you to do something: meeting with a friend who does not like something, staying late at work, communicating with the opposite sex because he is jealous. These are all alarm bells that should be heeded.
Probably, the loved one simply does not trust or wants to limit your position in society so that only he remains among your loved ones. This is abnormal and wrong. In this case, you should discuss personal space with your loved one and, if he does not understand your desire to communicate with other people and make decisions on your own, you should run away from such a guy.
3. It requires access to social networks
Boyfriend demands to show social networks to see who writes to you, who you like and who you follow. A profile on the network is a kind of way of self-expression, a personal space that everyone wants and should manage independently. If a guy doesn’t respect your right to privacy, then it’s time to think about whether your relationship is toxic. Especially if he takes the phone without permission or demands in a commanding tone to show the content of messages, etc.
Some couples, in a rush of complete trust and mutual understanding, share passwords of their social media pages with each other and even create joint accounts. Such decisions often turn against one of the partners. Access to the other half’s page limits a person’s freedom. You will no longer be able to complain to your friend or mother about the boy, or even look at former pages for the sake of interest, because all your actions are tracked.
4. He makes you feel guilty
A guy goes beyond reasonable behavior when he starts shifting responsibility to his girlfriend and trying on himself the role of a victim. Whatever the conflict, both are always partly to blame. There is no smoke without fire. If one of you is unhappy with something, then the other has shown some carelessness in communication. You need to sit down and talk about it.
However, the “psycho lover” most often does not see his fault. He will blame the lady of the heart and demand that she feel sorry for him and apologize. Such men are only looking for an excuse to be offended, to ignore, although in reality they do not feel anything like that. If your relationship is characterized by a similar pattern of behavior on the part of the guy, think about it! Such behavior is not characteristic of an emotionally mature personality.
5. He does not allow dressing and dyeing according to taste
In the yard of the XXI century, fashion dictates freedom of choice! You have the right to wear and paint as you please. Men often pay attention to a girl’s appearance. For example, you could meet while wearing long boots, a short skirt, or a dress/pants. And now he forbids you to wear such things and generally wants you to dress and paint more modestly. It is not normal! Every woman has the right to look the way she wants and emphasize her sexuality through clothes or makeup.
And what strange demands of boys did you encounter? Share your experience in the comments.